Thursday, May 2, 2013

The long road

With the kids back home and work starting up again, I've struggled to find the time and energy to update the blog. After this entry, I think I'll try small updates on a regular basis just so everyone can keep up on Mandy's progress.

She is walking a little more each day, but still feels motion sickness almost all the time as her body adjusts. She has times of frustration and the blues as we realize this is going to be a long-haul effort but she is pushing through.

Amanda is starting to get some feeling back in the right side of her face and tongue, but she still can't move anything (smiling, eye blinking, etc.) on the right side of her head. The right side of her body(arm, hand, leg, foot, etc.) still don't work like they used to but it seems to be slowly (very slowly to Amanda) improving. Her speech is much better and it continues to improve although there is still a pronounced slur.

Understandably, Mandy struggles at times with not feeling as pretty and useful as she did before the surgery, and yesterday she broke down for a little while. After a good cry session (her first one she would remind you!), she picked herself back up again and continued to practice walking on her own.

In a perfect display of timing, she shuffled to the kitchen table and opened several cards and gifts that reminded her people are still thinking of her and praying for her. That makes all the difference for her.

Thank you to the good friends and family that have been and continue to be so supportive and kind. She still has a long road ahead of her, but the thoughts and sweet gestures really lift Amanda up. We haven't been able to specifically thank people individually, but please know your efforts are noticed and so appreciated.

3 comments:

  1. Amanda - I know the struggle is hard as I have taken care of David for a year now. Yesterday he got great news - the Doctors thought he looked almost normal and thinks he will continue to improve up to 2 years. He hardly wears the eye patch any longer. He will need a hearing implant in the right ear – we check on that soon. Keep up the good work and know you are thought of each day by someone who is wearing your shoes – David Mangum

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  2. Wahoo! I love the video. You are such a trooper! I am so impressed with your walking. I wish I could be there to walk beside you.

    And, I wish I could cry with you, too.

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  3. I am really impressed with the walking, I thought it would take a lot longer! My heart hurts I am not there to help or do anything for you and Pete and the kids. I would be the best babysitter ever!

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